The infrastructure of Relationships

The Infrastructure of Relationships

I wrote The Infrastructure of Relationships as the second session after “I am the Relationship session one” teaching in an online conference. This was a lesson to a Sonship class which I did online and the terms that are written here might be a bit foreign to people who have not attended such classes. The main message however was that unless we lay a proper foundation in our souls we will always encounter great problems in relationships. The focus here is the community of believers who are always attacked by relational challenges above many other challenges.

I was amazed how people who pray together can become an easy target of relational breakdown than people who work together or play together. At the time I wrote this conference I had to literally stop a Bible lesson I was doing because of great animosity that was growing among very innocent audiences in my class. I had to make a study with them why churches struggle from relational challenges than any other known challenge to them.

It seemed to me that top of the list was a relationship problem and then secondly it was possessions. This was not only confined to family structure at home but spiritual families in a believers community. I trust that some of the things will jump to your mind as you read : The Infrastructure of Relationships. Just remember that it will make more sense when you first read: I am the Relationship session one. Enjoy the lesson.

Lesson begins

Beloved I have received an instruction to do Relationship Conference 2016 and yesterday was session 1

I want to continue on this matter as second session to Relationship Conference Part 2.

This subject is by far the biggest burden in my heart and for this I came to Sonship and received Apostle Ricci Hausley Snr. as my spiritual father.

When relationship challenges come to us it really matters how the soul infrastructure is built at the time.

We begin to see how much of soul is still orphan spirited and how much of soul is yielding to Sonship.

The Father leaves these relationship storms as training ground for the soul in the grace to relate.

That is why as believers we are seen to have more relationship problems than non believers.

As I have been growing in ministry I was shocked to see that we are very prayerful people and yet we are also highly troubled in relationships.

I used to watch how couples within our accepted church doctrines will have more fights than a couple of the groups we refer as cults and that troubled me a lot.

I saw couples of other religions seemingly peaceful than our couples and families.

I was not aware that Satan has come to make the business of messing relationships as his main weapon among believers.

It did not occur to me that we ate actually under attack, I was hard at our community without understanding this part of the strategy of Satan.

The biggest attacks in the Body of Christ are in Relationships and Possessions.

If it is not a bad relationship it is a financial problem.

For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.

Romans 14:17 KJV

I used to say, how do we get the peace and joy if we have financial and relationship problems?

For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink, but righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Ghost.

O wait a minute! Its not joy but it is not in the Holy Ghost!

Satan steals our joy in relationship attacks everyday.

But he will not steal our joy in the Holy Ghost.

He steals our peace in relationship attacks everyday.

But he will not steal our Peace in the Holy Ghost.

If we step out of Christ and out of the Holy Ghost, we have stepped out of the Kingdom and that peace and joy in that space is stolen.

When we Seek the Kingdom we must also seek His Righteousness.

His Righteousness, His Peace and His Joy.

The spirit man who is the New Man inside us stays 247 in the Kingdom and the Peace and Joy never run out in our spirit for he is joined with Holy Spirit.

Our soul is the one who separates with the spirit and we get hurt often.

It is our soul and not our spirit that is under attack.

Our spirit has no relationship problem it is our soul that has relationship problem.

It is true that we are sons of God and our Father is Father of lights meaning Father of spirits.

But our soul keeps on detaching itself from the spirit which is connected to the Holy Spirit.

The soul is the area where demons attack us not in our spirit.

Our spirit man is hidden life in Christ but our soul is the battle ground where demons have access.

The independence of our soul from the spirit man is the mess that happened in Eden when Adam sinned.

Therefore since we have Father of spirits we also need to have fathers of our souls that will watch over our souls.

Spiritual fathers are fathers who watch over our souls

They watch over our souls because this is the battle ground and this soul has to be spiritual.

When a soul is spiritual it means it is submitting to your spirit but when the soul is flesh it means it is submitting to the outer five senses.

When relationships break down our soul runs to analyze them from our five senses.

There devil knows this too well.

Our spiritual fathers watch over our soul so as to keep our souls submitted to the spirit man who is one with the Holy Spirit.

Before we begin with our conference and explore the problems of the soul do you have someone who watches over your soul?

Maybe you have but do you allow that someone to watch over your soul or is he just a fronting spiritual father?

Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you.

Hebrews 13:17 KJV

It does not say they rule over you it says the HAVE THE RULE what does that mean?

And Manoah said, Now let thy words come to pass. How shall we order the child, and how shall we do unto him?

Judges 13:12 KJV

This is how NIV puts it: New International Version

So Manoah asked him, “When your words are fulfilled, what is to be the rule that governs the boy’s life and work?”

Manoah has the rule over Samson. Who has the rule, the manual over your life?

The rule, the manual is to be transcended to the soul by your spiritual father. The whole inheritance which is stored safely in your hidden man of your heart has to be transferred to your soul.

This is why Satan attacks your soul, your soul is the hard drive storage that downloads from the cloud storage.

Satan puts a virus in your hard drive your soul. Relationship attacks are the biggest virus attack against your hard drive.

Lets talk about this in the third session.

end of lesson

There you have it friends: The infrastructure of Relationships; it has two components which we need to learn and the first is the Soul and the second component is the person who is watching over your Soul. You need to have a person in your life whom you chose to be your Accountability “partner” and in our case we call that person a Spiritual Father.  I could go on to say this person is much more than an accountability partner in the way we have been taught in the circular language. We know accountability partners as life coaches.

Well we know very well that we are not in the process of building an institution but we are building a Holy Nation and we are accountable in spiritual families where we have spiritual fathers or spiritual parents. These are the people who watch over your character issues in your walk with God. We need to create The infrastructure of relationships that will help us to achieve our God given destinies. In the lesson above Samson had that infrastructure as his home and Manoah his father seems to understand that very well. We hear in his prayer when he asks the Lord what Rule or accountability laws should they observe concerning Samson’s destiny.

In as much as we create the infrastructure of relationships in our studies and even in our wellness groups we need to go beyond even our work places to our spiritual lives.

Thank you for listening to The infrastructure of Relationships. Here is the next lesson.

Peace be unto you

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